5 top things i do to heal the wound

1. curhat.. curhat.. curhat... speak your feelings out!

to the person(s) we trust and we feel comfy telling them the story. Those who have hi-patient, who could accept our unbelievable actions like crying, then laughing, then crying again, on and on and on... this is important as well, words your feeling out to those who have warm thought and warm hug!

2. write.. write.. write...

writing, let go all the feelings inside to written-words... sekalian jadi oleh2 dari rasa pada hari itu, juga untuk nanti jadi reminder. there's two benefit in writing the feelings! if the result is good, make it a lyric for a song (lucky me have friends with the talents of making music!) second, after the hurt's gone, when we read that stuff, we will laugh at it so fuckin' loud!

3. do things that reminds u of that person

listen to the soundtrack of the story, go to the places that remind u of "that person", smell the scent that reminds u of "that person", do the things that reminds u of "that person", on and on and on... this action will knock u out, but... u get the the strength afterward. this is also some kinda' test for your feeling. u know right away if u'r still hurt or healed!

4. find all the info about "that person".

so u know how to act and react when u heard some shocking news... if u had the guts, well... keep in touch with "that person" even only by calling "that person", sending "that person" sms, whateva comfort u the most. u be the one with the "brave and big heart" rite? but please, don't give hope too much in it. consider it as one of your step to adulthood.

5. last but not least, PRAY! (i ain't preachin' here!)

yup, that's the best medicine of all time! communicate with god! u'd be able to say anything without doubts... maybe the answer doesn't come rite-away. but if u believe, u have faith in your prayer, u'd feel secure and calm... and believe me, god answers every prayer... if things don't come as u wished, believe me, that's the best thing god arrange for u. god knows what's best for us... ;)