li'l note for my girlfriendz!

dear girl friendz...

i just had this ten minutes conversation with a guy that so "memorable" to many girls. from that li'l chit chat, i come up with this thought...
so, if u please, just read'em...

most guys, don't realize that much if we have a crush on him, IF WE DON'T LET OUR FEELING SHOW - OR - NOT TELLING HIM HOW WE FEEL.
so the signs, or some words via the third party, it won't help that much.
let's say he noticed. but he just can't make that move instantly. he had to be convinced that what he's about to do is pointful.
ESPECIALLY in this case, that guy didn't have that much intention to us.
WE HAVE TO DIRECT HIM TO THE DIRECTION WE WISH FOR!

or let's say, he had the same interest as we had, BUT WHY IS ON EARTH HE HASN'T MADE THE MOVE YET???

signals? check!
our sweet & nice attention? check!
the sparkling in our eyes when talking with him? check!
the longing appearing everytime we meet him? check!

What else haven't we done to show him how we really want him more than what we have with him at this moment???

well girlfriends, WE NEED TO DO SOMETHING REAL... MORE REAL...
stating what u feel, without asking how he feels about us. let him think, let him realize that for some periode of time we have sent the signals so many times.
LET HIM THINK ABOUT IT, LET HIM REALIZE, LET HIM FEEL WHAT IT'S FELT TO BE WANTED...
THEN LET HIM DECIDE...

if, IF, he didn't show up with the attitude we wished for, that he didn't want us the way we want him to be, it's time to pull away for some moment.
let him feel our disappearance...

let's cross our fingers and pray that he'd miss us... and from that point he realizes that US that he really want!

but if he doesn't... it's time to move on... go for someone that appreciate U more than him.
nevertheless, we can't make him love us if he doesn't... we can't force love, coz love is sincere and so natural...
and believe me, WE WILL FIND OUR TRUE LOVE, eventually!

so, girlfriends... no need to worry. don't push yourself so hard that u lost your own dignity...

fling-fling comes and goes, but true love will stay for a never-ending time...

happy saturday nite, my friends...